Sunday, 26 June 2016
job and dresses
A few weeks ago I went wedding dress shopping with my mum and three friends. it was so much fun! three shops, 18 dresses. I didn't find 'the one' but I have an idea. I think I will get one made customised because I really want one that is unique to me.
Wednesday, 1 June 2016
Sunday, 22 May 2016
off the wagon
Monday, 16 May 2016
missed a week (or three)
| me, nick and a girl in amsterdam |
Sunday, 24 April 2016
dresses!
Friday, 15 April 2016
Invites are out
a very positive post today!
Firstly, (most of) the invites are out. there are still a few we need to get addresses for, but so far they have reached the USA, Netherlands, UK and even Auckland hehe. Plus we've already had a few rsvps, so very nerve-wrecking exciting.
And just this evening i went for a wonderful 8.6km run along the south coast from Pak n Save to Princess Bay and back. it was twilight and so beautiful. I struggle to maintain mental focus and my mind wavers between carrying on and stopping. I think it's because I don't have a plan, i kinda just run and see how I feel. But, if i had a plan, I'd stick to it. So i might ask my beautiful (runner) friend Pamela to write me one up. Cos she's training for a half at the moment in Seattle. She's in a different league from me though, she's done maybe 5 already, and has had two babies god dammit!
Tuesday, 5 April 2016
best run yet
Wednesday, 30 March 2016
no title
It involves all three points of interest to this blog.
1) I went for a wonderful run last night. it was a perfect night, the sun was setting on the south coast and i felt really really good. I went for 35 mins, following the slow and steady increase regime.
2) our wedding invites arrived! they are just great. at first i thought the writing was too small and our names took up too much of the card, but that doesn't really matter. hopefully we can start posting them this weekend, if Nick ever has time to do anything other than uni work...
3) as part of my internship i made a goal to post a blog at least once a week and to continue to learn new html and other fancy things. also, to run twice a week. so now that ive said that, i have to stick to it. Although right now I am not writing in html because im at uni and i have other things to do. i have just completed my first piece of assessment and shit it took me ages to get into it. i've known about it for weeks but only started on it yesterday pretty much. a critical review of an article, but only 400 words. often its more difficult sticking to small word limits than trying to meet large requirements. i felt completely out of the loop until finally something clicked and i was away.
Wednesday, 23 March 2016
Wedding
Here's a sneak peek of where it will be taking place...
Wednesday, 16 March 2016
internship
I left the meeting yesterday and my first thought was "what am i doing". I couldnt think of anything to say back to her cos its all so new and technical and i dont know anything about it, but after actually doing the proof, and improving it for her, it felt really good. and finally i am actually thinking "how am i gonna fit all this in?" because the so far at uni i've had nothing on. Because this internship is counted as a course, i'm only doing two other regular courses, for which there is no assessment for another couple of weeks. Nick on the other hand, is so busy and as much as i love spare time, ive told myself this year i will be busy and proactive because it's time to get the life that i want!
Tuesday, 8 March 2016
first day at the gym
today i started at the gym!
I signed up to the uni last week cos they had a great deal on - it works out at about $4/wk compared to les mills which is $20/wk. I love les mills, but i can't afford that at the moment. so the uni gym it is. it's great! totally fine. there are pump equivalent classes too so i will come to those and start working out again. it's been too long and my body has lost its tone, so time to change that. i ran 20 mins on the treadmill and that felt good. treadmill running is a good chance to concentrate on technique and breathing, both things that i need to work on. so yes, here we go, let's make fitness!Thursday, 3 March 2016
running
I'm conscious of how often I write 'I' on this blog. That is the 'me me me' aspect of a blog that always put me off. My friend Pamela doesn't capitalise her "i"s on her blog which you can find here and I think it looks quite nice actually. Like, less emphasis on the
Wednesday, 2 March 2016
First blog post
I have toyed with the idea of a blog for years now, but I have always decided that it was too egocentric for me and therefore never went through with it. But this time is different. I am in my final year of uni and face the prospect of finding a job next year. NEXT YEAR. From next year, I can no longer give the reason (excuse) of being at uni for being 30 and not yet having a 'proper job'. And that is scary cos now that I am actually looking into jobs and things, I think I have even less of an idea. I kind of have an imaginary job in my mind, but it doesn't seem to be advertised on Seek. Anyway, the area I am interested in involves writing, research, and that word which I think means something else to me than it actually is: communication. And these tend to include the internet. So that is why I am starting this blog - to learn something new, something that may prove useful later on.
The topics of my blog will be these:
1. Trying to run a half marathon
2. Being a mature student and trying to start a completely new career at 30
3. Planning a wedding
Half marathon - I have probably been thinking about doing one of these for as long as I've been thinking about starting a blog. Late 2011 I signed up for the Wellington Round the Bays which was to be held February 2012. I should mention I've always been a casual runner. It has always been my exercise of choice and I did it regularly, but never long distances. So it wasn't like I was starting from scratch when I started training for RTB, but it was definitely the most running I'd ever done. My longest run was one where I left my house in Mt Victoria and went down Adelaide Rd, through Berhampore and Island Bay to the coast and along the coast to Lyall Bay and back to Mt. Victoria. It was amazing! Just about 14km. I felt like I was floating, I think they call it being 'in the zone'. I was fit, I lost 7kgs and I loved it. On my next run, my calf muscle felt like it tore in half. I was by the NIWA station in Evans Bay so I had to limp home. I went to physio and that experience prompted the memory of doing the same thing when I was at school, after my calf muscle went while I was playing hockey. So I figured it was an old injury that never healed properly and I don't know much about muscles but I imagine that if they don't heal properly the first time, they may not ever heal completely. At least, that is the conclusion I've come to after this same calf injury happening again and again. I didn't run that half marathon. One great positive outcome of that time was the free trial at Les Mills that came with registration, thanks to their sponsorship. I started going to the gym for the first time in my life, and became totally addicted to Pump! Jeeeez, I love it. That was the best shape I have ever been, fit from the running and toned from Pump. I will get that body back...
Anyway, I really want to run a half marathon. I know I can do it, if my calf muscle can.
Study and career - As stated above, I am in my third year of my Bachelor of Arts majoring in Linguistics. I love it. It's so interesting and is fulfilling a passion and curiosity of mine. I just don't really know what to do next. Most students say this, especially those doing a BA. One day I would love to become a Speech Therapist but this would require me to do a Master's in either Christchurch or Auckland and that is not something I am ready to do at the moment. I just want to get a job and work for a year or two. I've been poor for too long!
Planning a wedding - yay! Nick and I are getting married next February at a campsite in the Marlborough Sounds. That is all we have planned at the moment, so there is plenty more to come with this topic!
